What's wrong with everyone?
What is happening to everyone these days ???
First was the incident of yester ~~~ Ending up with 3 people crying and some hurt... Was happily enjoying out ourselves @ the Minds Cafe ... But after leaving the area for beancurd, things started abit tense ... When going home, its the ultimate ... Usual problem with transportation ... But this time, is more problematic ... ... its such as hurtful session ... din expect things to be this way ... after all the faces and annoyance ... ended up with 4 person going home in bear's car .. But its was very tense ...
I was very disappointed and upset over what had happened ... I do not mind stating it outright here .. even if it meant to annoy anyone or hurt anyone .... I admit I was wrong too .. but why must things be turn out this way ... Bear is not obliged to send anyone home ... But as a gentleman, he did not decline ... Darren knowing the situation had "lied" that he is meeting his friends to solve the awkness ... Yana offered to go home herself ... Ting offered to go home herself ... but, being the most mature ... not a single word was mentioned ... Maybe the intention was there or maybe not ... But .. at least I dont feel so ... *disappointed* Felt that being a guy ... its very ungentleman of you behaviouring like this ....
I had the thot of just walking off since I am the last man .. no one will realised until its too late ... But I know if I had done that ... things would be worst ... But neither do I wan anyone to be going home on their own esp. Yana and Ting .... Yana being still injured and she is a ger and also with her house area not a very safe place ... Its definitely a NO NO ... For Ting, being the youngest and a ger ... its even more NO NO to letting her go home herself .... I myself do not mind taking my own public transport home ... and even if I need to walk home myself .. I would .. rather than putting a good frd in difficulty. I do not wish for the same things to happen again .. n again .. I feel really hurt ...
Reached home .... thou I went upstairs, but I did not go into the house .. I jus stayed on the 12th floor and looked around ... Did thot of how nice it would be if everything will end ... *as I looked downstairs* .. But I know, if I do that ... I am hurting those around me who care for me ... I do not wan to hurt my frds, my family and those who cared ... I just hope to everyone to be happy .. But just seems that what I had been doing seems to be wrong ... If I had never stepped into the lives of these friends may they will be happier .... I bring nothing but sorrows to them ... Felt like a failure .... I should just get the hell out of their lives ... let them lead the peaceful and happy life that had before ~~~ w/o me ard to create sadness .. things will be wonderful ...
Today, started off in a very bad shape... It took me >1hr 30mins to get to school ... Reached school at around 10am ... The bus was horrible ... SBS7278X ... Nvm about that .. its not a big issue ... After school went home to put down my things before going out again wif Jas to visit Jin in Sentosa ... Thou Jas mentioned about Jin not being the person for her and so on ... I know she do have feelings for him .. just that there are just some things that is not within her control ... things went on fine till dinner till go home ... Not sure what happened to them .... one msg me he is offing everything till tml nite .. the other msg me that she is pissed .... What is happening .. ts just round the corner in less than half or an hour .. it took a drastic turn ... its the same as yester night .... one moment we are happily playing games .. next moment .. all so tensed up .... and sad and hurt ....
Yana was another case today. Got a call from Bear in the afternoon telling me that she had called him and said that some things happened at her work ... and she was crying .. but all these .. I do not know .... sometimes, I really feel ... am I a good friend?? Called her shortly after my conversation with bear .. but .. she hang my call and subsquently did not pick up ... When she ultimately called me back ... she just say "nothing, nothing" .... Even whenn she reveal later .. it was just not really she wanted to say .. but rather i keep asking ... Maybe I am really not a good soulmate ... not a good confidate ...
Sometimes I thot I do know my friends well .. I tired to know each and everyone of my friends .. their likes, dislikes, behaviour, be their confidate where needed, help when needed and so on .... but seems these seems not good euff .. I am really not a good friend ... Maybe its better if I am myself ... just myself alone ... Not going ard pestering others .. going ard hurting others ... They will all live better if I had never exist before in their memories ...
~~ Wish for you, my friends, happiness ever .... ~~
flew into your heart from DreamyDolphin @ [10:23 PM]
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Ponder about Life
It had been so long since I last blog and there are so much that had happened over these times ... though its just a short 1 month plus, but ... so much had happened .... around me, around my friends and many more.
On the eve of the 3years 9months relationship, everything ended with me till now still pondering over why .... But nevertheless, I know I wont get the answer ... decided to cast it aside and focus my efforts on other things .... Chinese New Year preparations then ... Even CNY this year was abit quieter ... I do not feel the CNY mood despite roaming the streets of Chinatown .... Families decided to forgo the usual tradition of having steamboat together. In the end, we had our reunion at our respective house.... Mine, we also decided not to have steamboat either, thus, I did some ordering and do the remaining cooking ... Luckily the food was not bad ~~~
Organised a guild reunion dinner sometime back.. the response was so much better than previous outings .. maybe cause everyone was in festive mood and misses each other .. the turnout was around 15 person, includ. rare guest like mousy, kever, and nitz ... adding to the new family was banana didi and gal ~~ Dinner was held at Gallery by the Straits .. a resturant off the busy town area .. located in SAF yatch club behind Sembawang camp ~~~ Food was not bad quite nice ... the scene was nice ~~~ as I like the sea alot ... Maybe that's why I am Dolphin After dinner, went over to OCC for bowling and pool .. there JJ joined us.. another rare guest ~~~
Ended my temp assignment on the 26th of Feb ~~~ taking a break before I was asked to go back this morning .. wef nex week onwards ~~~ I will be back on job ~~~ My projects deadline are drawing nearer .. with the bindings and couriering needs to be done ... I am left with only slightly around 2 weeks ... 5 more documents for SEP and some touch-up for ISP ... and my fate is sealed ~~~~ putting in my best effort and hoping for the best .. clearing this last year and I am ready to embark on my next phase of life .. starting my career ~~~
flew into your heart from DreamyDolphin @ [11:13 AM]
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DreamyDolphin Lagoon
Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.
Of all the gifts life may bestow,
none is so constant, steady and sure
as the tender heart of a friend.
May the sun bring you new energies by day.
May the moon softly restore you by night.
May the rain wash away any worries you may have.
May gentle breezes refresh your soul.
And may tomorrow
always find you feeling better
than the day before.
Everyday, God gives us the sun and also one moment in which we have he ability to change everything.
It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers.
At least three times everyday, takes a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and the courage to build your life around your dream.
Maturity begins to grow when you can sense your concern fr others outweighing your concern for yourself.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out of your life.
With Hope, no matter how bad things look and are...Peace, Faith and Love can Shine Brightly in our lives.
We make a living by what we get...We make a life by what we give!
Teamwork is the cooperative effort of reaching greater heights through UNITY!
No man is worth your tears and the only one who is, will never make you cry.
If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone."
The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place, but also to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment
Time may pass and space may separate us, but the dist cnt alter feelings and trust between true love..the same sun shines on us and the same common bond is felt in the heart. As love grows, days becomes years...we look at tis relationship as a priceless gift from our yesterdays looking forward for the tomorrows tht lies ahead.....So we must always treasure what is given from the past and look forward for the better future that lies ahead ........ True love are ever lasting but hard to find!~!~!
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
Of all the gifts life may bestow none is so constant, steady and sure as the tender heart of a friend.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best friends
are fellow
travelers
on the road of life.
The best friends
change and grow
with each other
and learn
through one another's
experiences and lessons...
The best friends
can share
the most insignificant
and the most
shining parts
of themselves
with the same degree
of joy and
openness.